The secrets of a healthy divorce: ditch blame, put kids first – and avoid lawyers as long as you can

Nine people who managed to break up without hostility or bitterness tell us how they did it

My parents had the most acrimonious divorce of anyone I know. Years of rage culminated in a decision to live on opposite sides of the world. I never heard my parents speak well of each other. The unexpected silver lining of this experience was that, when my marriage of 15 years was coming to an end, I knew how not to do it.

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