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#MeToo: survivors testify to the impossibility of preempting sexual assault

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Mayim Bialik argued that women can ward off sexual assault by making themselves less attractive. A viral hashtag begged to differ.

Widespread outrage over the Harvey Weinstein sexual assault allegations continued to play out on social media over the weekend — this time through #MeToo, a powerful hashtag aimed at illustrating that anyone can be a victim of sexual harassment.

The hashtag was spurred primarily by an opinion piece in the New York Times, “Being a Feminist in Harvey Weinstein's World,” which was written by The Big Bang Theory’s Mayim Bialik and quickly went viral. Bialik argued that women are essentially harassed on a hierarchical tier based on how attractive they are and how they dress.

The argument was an affront to many readers, who rushed to point out that in reality, women of all types are harassed. As discussion of Bialik’s op-ed continued, actress Alyssa Milano suggested that women reply “me too” to a single tweet:

Many women and other survivors responded, passing it on.

The idea spread rapidly, as women began speaking about their experiences with sexual harassment and assault on both Twitter and Facebook, and the #MeToo hashtag was born.

In her op-ed, Bialik painted herself as being savvy enough to preemptively ward off sexual assault

Bialik’s argument was two-pronged: She suggested that Hollywood’s emphasis on extreme beauty insulated her from the worst forms of harassment throughout her career, and implied that women should essentially dress and modify their behavior to protect themselves from rape culture.

“As a proud feminist with little desire to diet, get plastic surgery or hire a personal trainer, I have almost no personal experience with men asking me to meetings in their hotel rooms,” she wrote. “Those of us in Hollywood who don’t represent an impossible standard of beauty have the ‘luxury’ of being overlooked and, in many cases, ignored by men in power unless we can make them money.”

She added that women “can’t be naïve about the culture we live in,” and that she makes “choices” she deems “self-protecting and wise.”

“I have decided that my sexual self is best reserved for private situations with those I am most intimate with. I dress modestly. I don’t act flirtatiously with men as a policy.”

Many people who read the piece felt that it amounted to victim blaming, and that Bialik was unforgivably asking potential targets of sexual assault to be responsible for curbing the behavior of predatory men. But the more widespread backlash was reserved for Bialik’s primary assertion that only pretty women experience harassment and assault.

In particular, numerous actresses spoke out, with many saying that their own experiences with sexual assault didn’t align with what Bialik was arguing.

Bialik’s own experience also didn’t align with those of the thousands of survivors who trended the #MeToo hashtag in response.

Words of support and empowerment were also widespread.

There were also calls for men to do more to combat harassment, instead of relying on women to do so by sharing their stories:

Twitter’s ongoing role in the discussion wasn’t forgotten either:

Bialik responded to the backlash Sunday night, tweeting that her words had been taken out of context.

There was, however, at least one chilling reminder that the “too ugly to be raped” myth is alive and well:



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